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Hi Reader,

My yoga nidra certification arrived a few weeks ago — and it got me thinking.

I've sat with a lot of women around the "Do I need another certification?" question.

And it almost always comes down to this:

Do you need the credential to open a specific door?

Or are you waiting to finally feel ready?

Those are very different energies. And only one of them will actually get you closer to the rich, layered body of work that is yours to offer.

I think of the women I've sat with:

Each of them was balking at a threshold. And not for lack of preparation!

For me, yoga nidra certification was clearly a yes. It's a lineaged practice, and many spaces require formal training to offer it. The door it opens is real and specific.

But I am also a lineaged practitioner in ways no certificate can speak for. Decades of sitting in the messy middle with women. An artistry learned in the being-with. In the accumulated hours of holding space.

Both kinds of initiation are real. Both are valid.

Your degrees. Your rites of passage. Your hard-won scars. Formal to informal — all of it counts.

Because the question underneath the credential question is usually this:

Who gets to say you're ready? Who confers the permission?

Sometimes it's the literal piece of paper. Sometimes it's the years of lived experience. Sometimes — and this is the one we resist most — it's you.

Claiming your own readiness is not arrogance. It’s alignment. It’s your life organized around what is actually true about you.

If you've been wrestling with your own version of this — what initiates us, what authorizes us, when you finally gave yourself permission — write back and tell me. I read every reply.

And: what questions do you have about yoga nidra in midlife, or about rest and renewal more broadly? I'd love to know where you need support.

Look for Sunday's email. I'll be inviting you to practice with me.

With love,

Brooke

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BROOKE HOFSESS

Midlife Midwife, Coach, Founder of Second Bite

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