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Midlife isn’t a crisis—it’s a wild, holy becoming. This is your invitation to experience midlife as it was meant to be: sweet, curious, delicious.
“ Perfectionism is the voice of the oppressor, the enemy of the people. It will keep you insane your whole life. ~ Anne Lamott Ahh, midlife… when the epic realization hits that the relentless chase for "perfect" is digging you into yet another pit of comparison. You want out! Perfectionism be gone! And yet it creeps back in... When you're deep in a Pinterest rabbit hole searching for the "right" potluck recipe — one that'll impress everyone without costing you a hundred bucks and an afternoon...
Dear Reader, The sleepytime tea is steeping. The open journal on your lap. A puzzle in progress. And yet, you still go to bed feeling... kind of blah. You don't have to hit a dramatic, collapse-on-the-floor kind of burnout to be soulfully dehydrated. You can be doing everything "right" and still not wake up feeling replenished. The overculture sells us a one-size-fits-all version of rest (looking at you, 8 hours of perfect sleep). What we actually need to refill our cups… well, that shifts...
Dear Reader, When I asked a friend the other day about her dreams, she looked at me like I'd asked her to recite a poem from memory. "I don't have time to think about my dreams," she said. I've been thinking about it ever since. Because it's not really about time, is it? It's about what we've been trained to consider a legitimate use of our attention. We live inside a culture that has colonized the things that should belong to us most intimately — how we sleep, how we eat, how we go for a...