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Midlife isn’t a crisis—it’s a wild, holy becoming. This is your invitation to experience midlife as it was meant to be: sweet, curious, delicious.
“ Perfectionism is the voice of the oppressor, the enemy of the people. It will keep you insane your whole life. ~ Anne Lamott Ahh, midlife… when the epic realization hits that the relentless chase for "perfect" is digging you into yet another pit of comparison. You want out! Perfectionism be gone! And yet it creeps back in... When you're deep in a Pinterest rabbit hole searching for the "right" potluck recipe — one that'll impress everyone without costing you a hundred bucks and an afternoon...
Dear Reader, When I asked a friend the other day about her dreams, she looked at me like I'd asked her to recite a poem from memory. "I don't have time to think about my dreams," she said. I've been thinking about it ever since. Because it's not really about time, is it? It's about what we've been trained to consider a legitimate use of our attention. We live inside a culture that has colonized the things that should belong to us most intimately — how we sleep, how we eat, how we go for a...
"Rest and laughter are the most spiritual and subversive acts of all. Laugh, rest, slow down." — Anne Lamott Here's a question for you, Reader: what do you expect rest to do for you? I used to expect rest to feel like dessert — a reward for after the big win, for whenever I'd finally "earned" it. Last week, lake-deep with nowhere to be and nothing to do, I caught myself expecting the spaciousness to make things happen for me. Was I relaxing enough to access my intuition? Was I actually...