What Cheryl Strayed taught me about just beginning


Midlife isn’t a crisis—it’s a wild, holy becoming.

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Dear Reader,

If you’ve been here a while, you might have noticed that I begin each month with a blessing.

But have I ever shared how I craft them? My process is simple—and like most things I do, sacred.

I do something to soften and listen—to open the door between my inner life and the page.
I walk, sit in the sun, run a hot bath, or curl up with the dogs.
I think of the women who have been on my heart and mind—a client, a friend, you.
I ask myself: What do I really, really want her to know, feel, and trust?
Then, I let it simmer. I go about my day, waiting for the magic to arrive.
Eventually, I type it up and give it a little zhuzh.

I’m sharing this behind-the-scenes glimpse because I just returned from a writing retreat with a phenomenal teacher, Cheryl Strayed. I have so much to tell you about that special, special time.

But for today, I want to share this truth with you:

If you want to write, to create, to take one tiny step toward your wild awakening… just begin.

Because writing is magic—but only if you start.

Make space, and something will happen.

Every. Time.

Even if the first thousand words are "I don’t know," even if your first brushstrokes feel forced, even if doubt whispers, who do you think you are?—begin anyway.

Because on the other side of beginning, something is waiting, always.

An April Blessing
May you mend and forgive—not for them, but for your own lightness.
May you give only from your overflow, like a sparkling river, rushing and sure.
May you unhook yourself from the fear of being disliked, especially when it wears the mask of guilt.
May you revel in the pleasure of your own company, unburdened, unrushed.
May you be still enough to feel the first whisper of a new direction, brushing your skin like the season’s first warm breeze.
And may you have the nerve to follow where it leads.
Most of all, when faced with the choice to create or hold back—may you always, always begin.

To your second bite,

Brooke

P.S. Isn’t this the sweetest photo of me and Cheryl?


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